As an author, there’s one rule I hold sacred above all else in my writing — Be careful what you promise.
I’m not talking about deadlines.
I’m not talking about telling people when a book will be out.
What I’m talking about are the promises we, as writers, make to our audience. Promises about circumstances. About events. About characters. About relationships.
These are sacred promises. We have asked our audience to put their faith in us. To willingly, and with absolute trust, follow us along a twisting path through our characters’ lives, to learn about them, to laugh with them, cry with them, fall in love with them, and perhaps (in some cases) die a little with them.
Along the way, we have to be careful of the pitfall of “I promise…” Unless we are prepared to follow through — to perhaps abandon our entire creative endeavor based on a bridge we swore to never set foot upon, to never cross, and certainly never demolish behind us.
We can never promise what we are not prepared to deliver, or are uncertain our characters can deliver. We are the most honest of all deceivers, for we peddle in truths based upon lives that are only, at best, half reality. But this does not give us permission to lie to our audience.
We do not get to make promises we are either incapable of or unwilling to assure the outcome of.
Personally, I don’t make promises regarding characters or situations, other than that the situation will eventually be resolved.
The quest will reach an end.
A resolution will, sooner or later, arrive for every situation.
Beyond that, I make no promises. I have no idea where the path might twist and turn, or how my characters will arrive at the resolution. I assume they will be changed, but I have no idea how, no matter how much plotting I do. I do not even promise they will all arrive there alive.
However, if you do decide to make a promise regarding your characters or situations, be aware, you are toying with a trust you must be very careful of.
Audiences do not respond well to being tricked, to having their emotions manipulated by empty promises. They are unlikely to trust your motives, or your storytelling, again, if you offer them something you can’t deliver on.
Once you make a promise, you simply can’t change your mind. At that point, you are committed to a course, and you will have to see it through.